An Unexpected Delivery

July 9th 2011. It was a typical Saturday. My hubby and I didn't have chores to do since Manang already did everything the previous night. All I did is prepare breakfast (yummy longganisa and fried rice) and since I have a scheduled OB check-up at 3PM and a Saturdate with my hubby, I was merely passing the time by watching pregnancy videos and arranging my uber clustered closet.

None of us thought today will be THE DAY.

At 5PM, my hubby and I were still patiently waiting at my OB's clinic. She got in a bit late because of (surprise, surprise) heavy traffic along Marcos highway. When my OB's secretary finally ushered us in, I was really hungry that I can't help but whispered to my hubby "Can we eat at Max's tonight? I want to savor their Chicken-All-You-Can again." He gave me a stern look but nodded anyway.

Dra. Orlina greeted me with a smile and told me she was very pleased with my blood pressure and weight. Then, as a check-up protocol, I was asked to lie down so she could check my cervix. The last time she checked, it was still closed. Suddenly, her face fell and asked me, "Did you and your husband had contact last night?" In a distant past, I might have been offended by this question but I just shrugged and said, "We didn't have sex ever since I've learned that I'm pregnant. You know about this Dra., you advised us not to." Haha.

She became more worried and said, "You're leaking. And, you're cervix is already open at 2cm. Have you been urinating frequently for the last 24 hours?" Then it hit me. OMG, that's the reason why I was very fidgety at Megamall last night and not to mention, my trips to the bathroom were beyond normal.

So, she gave me the 411. I had Premature Rupture of Membrane (PROM) which may cause infection to the baby if I don't give birth within 6 hours. She said that she'll admit me and if my dilation is good, we could still proceed with the normal delivery. However, CS is a big possibility especially since we're racing against time.

Surprisingly, I was calm. My husband though was a bit nervous. He kept asking me if I'm feeling any contractions, if I'm okay, etc. I wanted to laugh at him when we got admitted. He didn't know what to do! I had to instruct the attendant because my hubby can't speak audibly, let alone collect his thoughts!

At around 6PM, I was ushered in the delivery room and was given fluids to induce labor. They've attached so many tubes to me and of course, dextrose fluids were given for me to avoid dehydration and weakness. I was very at ease, even chatting with the male nurse (surprise, surprise). I'm unsure why I'm calm and why I can't feel any pain (today I've realized that my pain tolerance is actually very high that's why I didn't feel any contractions when my water bag broke) but being in labor for 4 hours made me appreciate my mum further. Although the contractions are mild, waiting for your cervix to open up to 10cm just to give birth WITHOUT anything to do besides stare at the white walls, it's painfully boring.

Physicians come in every hour to check on my cervix (IE much?) and unfortunately, I only gain 1cm per hour so by the time Dra. Orlina checked on me, I was still 6cm short to undergo a normal delivery.

That's the time when she called my husband to inform him and have him sign the CS delivery waiver. I was ready and yes, even though I know CS is riskier, I'll do anything to have my little one delivered safely.

11:46PM. I requested not to be sedated because I want to see and kiss Zeke when he gets out. My anesthesiologist and OB agreed. So, I was given an epidural from the waist down. It was no easy task. 5 shots on the spine is no laughing matter. I had to fetus position myself to get the shots.

But it was all worth it. As soon as I heard the loud cry of my baby especially when the nurse showed him to me, all the pain was eradicated. I kissed my son on both cheeks. And yes, I shed a few tears. I'm a mom.

Signs of Labor

Now that I am at my 37th week (9 months, 1 week), it's only natural for me to take my maternity leave. It officially starts on Monday and honestly, I really want to give birth now so that I can take care of my little one a bit longer. I kept thinking that two months is not long enough. I mean, in other countries like Canada, they allow pregnant women to take a year long leave WITH PAY. Why can't we have that here in the Philippines? We pay taxes (a lot of evil taxes) and what do we get? A measly 30k from SSS (39k if you'll do a caesarean delivery, which by the way, isn't even half of the actual cost) and no pay for two months. And THEY say that the Philippines is one of the most women friendly countries. Yeah right.

Anyway, enough ranting. Let's talk labor. For the past days, I have been feeling extreme pains which eventually goes away. Talk about false alarm. At one time, I gave a big yelp and my Dydy almost rushed me to the hospital --- only to find out that our baby just gave me a kick. A big one.

So, what are the signs to expect when you're about to give birth? After a thorough interview from my co-workers and Google (of course), here's the list that I found out from this link:

Signs of Labor

Some women experience very distinct signs of labor, while others do not. No one knows what causes labor to start or when it will start, but several hormonal and physical changes may indicate the beginning of labor.

These changes include:

• Lightening
• Passing of the mucus plug
• Contractions
• Water breaking
• Effacement and dilation of the cervix

Lightening During Labor

The process of your baby settling or lowering into your pelvis just before labor is called lightening. Lightening can occur a few weeks or a few hours before labor. Because the uterus rests on the bladder more after lightening, you may feel the need to urinate more frequently.

Passing of the Mucus Plug

The mucus plug accumulates at the cervix during pregnancy. When the cervix begins to open wider, the mucus is discharged into the vagina and may be clear, pink, or slightly bloody. Labor may begin soon after the mucus plug is discharged or one to two weeks later.

Labor Contractions

During contractions, the abdomen becomes hard. Between contractions, the uterus relaxes and the abdomen becomes soft. The way a contraction feels is different for each woman and may feel different from one pregnancy to the next. But, labor contractions usually cause discomfort or a dull ache in your back and lower abdomen, along with pressure in the pelvis. Contractions move in a wave-like motion from the top of the uterus to the bottom. Some women describe contractions as strong menstrual cramps. Unlike false labor contractions or Braxton Hicks contractions -- true labor contractions do not stop when you change your position or relax. Although the contractions may be uncomfortable, you will be able to relax in between contractions.

What's the Difference Between True Labor and False Labor?

Before "true" labor begins, you may have "false" labor pains, also known as Braxton Hicks contractions. These irregular uterine contractions are perfectly normal and may start to occur in your second trimester, although more commonly in your third trimester of pregnancy. They are your body's way of getting ready for the "real thing."

What Do Braxton Hicks Contractions Feel Like?

Braxton Hicks contractions can be described as a tightening in the abdomen that comes and goes. These contractions do not get closer together, do not increase with walking, do not increase in how long they last and do not feel stronger over time as they do when you are in true labor.

How Do I Know When I Am in True Labor?

To figure out if the contractions you are feeling are the real thing, ask yourself the following questions.

Contraction Characteristics	False Labor	True Labor
How often do the contractions occur?	Contractions are often irregular and do not get closer together.	Contractions come at regular intervals and last about 30-70 seconds. As time goes on, they get closer together.
Do they change with movement?	Contractions may stop when you walk or rest, or may even stop if you change positions.	Contractions continue despite movement or changing positions.
How strong are they?	Contractions are usually weak and do not get much stronger. Or they may be strong at first and then get weaker.	Contractions steadily increase in strength.
Where do you feel the pain?	Contractions are usually only felt in the front of the abdomen or pelvic region.	Contractions usually start in the lower back and move to the front of the abdomen.

How Do I Know When to Go to the Hospital?

When you think you are in true labor, start timing your contractions. To do this, write down the time each contraction starts and stops or have someone do it for you. The time between contractions includes the length or duration of the contraction and the minutes in between the contractions (called the interval).

Mild contractions generally begin 15 to 20 minutes apart and last 60 to 90 seconds. The contractions become more regular until they are less than 5 minutes apart. Active labor (the time you should come into the hospital) is usually characterized by strong contractions that last 45 to 60 seconds and occur 3 to 4 minutes apart.

What Can I Do to Relieve Labor Pain?

The first stage of labor (called the Latent Phase) is best experienced in the comfort of your home. Here are some tips to help you cope.

• Try to distract yourself -- take a walk, watch a movie.
• Soak in a warm tub or take a warm shower. But, ask your health care provider if you can take a tub bath if your water has broken.
• Try to sleep if it is in the evening. You need to store up your energy for active labor.

What Happens When My Water Breaks During Labor?

The rupture of the amniotic membrane (the fluid-filled sac that surrounds the baby during pregnancy) may feel either like a sudden gush of fluid or a trickle of fluid that leaks steadily. The fluid is usually odorless and may look clear or straw-colored. If your "water breaks," write down the time this occurs, how much fluid is released and what the fluid looks like and then notify your health care provider. Although, labor may not start immediately after your water breaks, delivery of your baby will occur within the next 24 hours.

Lastly, keep in mind that not all women will have their water break when they are in labor. Many times the doctor will rupture the amniotic membrane in the hospital.

What Is Effacement and Dilation of the Cervix?

During labor, your cervix gets shorter and thins out in order to stretch and open around your baby's head. The shortening and thinning of the cervix is called effacement. Your health care provider will be able to tell you if there are changes to the cervix during a pelvic exam. Effacement is measured in percentages from 0% to 100%. If there are no changes to the cervix, it is described as 0% effaced. When the cervix is half the normal thickness, it is 50% effaced. When the cervix is completely thinned out, it is 100% effaced.

The stretching and opening of your cervix is called dilation and is measured in centimeters with complete dilation being at 10 centimeters.

Effacement and dilation are a direct result of effective uterine contractions. Progress in labor is measured by how much the cervix has opened and thinned to allow your baby to pass through the vagina.

When Should I Call My Health Care Provider or Go to the Hospital?

When you suspect you are in true labor, call your health care provider. Also call:

• If you think your water has broken
• If you are bleeding (more than spotting)
• If the baby seems to be moving less than normal
• When your contractions are very uncomfortable and have been coming every five minutes for an hour

Your health care provider will give you specific guidelines about when you should get ready to come to the hospital.

Of course, once you're in true labor, you'll want to know how it feels like. My best friend advised me to not take epidural anesthesia so that you'll feel the contractions 100%. It's called the Lamaze method (click on the link if you want to learn more about Lamaze method).

The Lamaze method, developed by the French obstetrician Ferdinand Lamaze, has been used in the United States since the late '50s and remains one of the most commonly taught types of childbirth classes. In the early days, the focus was on using controlled breathing techniques to cope with labor. But the vision of Lamaze educators has expanded a lot since then. According to Lamaze International, the goal of Lamaze classes is to "increase women's confidence in their ability to give birth." Toward that end, women learn a variety of simple coping strategies, of which breathing is only one. The classes aim to help women "learn how to respond to pain in ways that both facilitate labor and increase comfort."The Lamaze philosophy of birth stipulates that "birth is normal, natural, and healthy" and that "women have a right to give birth free from routine medical interventions." But Lamaze also educates women so that when interventions are needed, or pain relief medication is desired, women are able to give true informed consent.

Anyway, I'm not sure if I'll do the Lamaze method or have an epidural anesthesia. I mean, honestly,it's both exciting and scary. But, over-all, I just want to see my baby. So, what will I expect during labor?

Here's a list I got from Baby Center:

No one can predict what your own labor will be like, but hearing from those who have been there can help you get familiar with the possibilities.

The box of chocolates effect

Our survey results made one thing clear: Labor is different for every woman, with pain ranging from mild to extreme. Even the epidural reactions varied widely. As one mom put it, "Labor is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're going to get."
Here's a sampling of the different pain experiences reported.

• My pain was irritating but not unbearable.
• I had excruciating pain.
• My contractions felt like muscle spasms and weren't very painful.
• The pain was all-encompassing.
• At first I didn't know I was in labor and thought I needed to have a bowel movement. By the time we got to the hospital, I was at 10 centimeters. It hurt, but it wasn't that bad.
• I felt like I was being run over by a train.
• I begged my hubby to throw me out of the car on the way to the hospital, it hurt so bad.
• It was close to painless, thanks to all the training/prep work I did during pregnancy. Yay for Hypnobabies.
• I was induced and got my epidural early, so I only felt minor contractions. It was all fairly easy!
• The epidural didn't get rid of everything, like I had hoped. I felt the pressure of each contraction and the pain from the crowning.
• I had period-like cramps until I got an epidural. Then I just waited.
• Painful, until I got the epidural! It saved my life!
• I still felt most of the pain even after the epidural was in.

Cramping

Many moms told us that their contractions felt like an extreme version of menstrual cramps, while others compared them to cramps from gas, a stomach flu, or a charley horse.

• My contractions were like menstrual cramps on steroids.
• The cramping went from the top of my stomach down to my pubic area.
• It was like gas pains times a thousand.
• A horrible cramp that started in my back and radiated into my stomach.
• Very painful cramping and tightening that started at the top of my uterus and spread downward and through my back.
• Strong menstrual cramps that came and went. They would start low and radiate up my belly and around into my lower back.
• Like the cramps you get with a really bad stomach flu – but they last longer!
• Labor feels like charley horses in your lower abdomen.

Tightening

Several women described the contractions as a "tightening" rather than a cramping.

• It felt like my entire stomach was tightening down into a painful little ball. But the contractions were not unbearable at all.
• I literally felt my uterus muscles tightening.
• The contractions felt like my whole body was clenching up.
• It was like someone was grabbing all the skin in my back and pulling very slowly until it was tight, then holding it for a minute and releasing.
• I had tightening all over my belly, radiating into my lower back and rectum.
• It felt like someone was squeezing my belly every two or three minutes.
• It was like someone was squeezing my insides as hard as they could.

Pounding

Some women described labor as more of a pounding or punching feeling

• It was like being slammed in the uterus with a sledgehammer while simultaneously being squeezed by a powerful vise.
• Having contractions felt like being hit with something really hard.
• Each contraction felt like getting punched in the stomach – the type of punch that knocks all the air out of you.
• It was like getting punched in the back and the stomach at the same time, but only when the epidural wore off.

Stabbing

In some cases, the labor pain was decidedly more sharp than dull.

• It felt like I was being impaled on a hot fireplace poker.
• It was like someone took a serrated knife and stabbed me in the top of my stomach slowly, slowly sawed downward to my pubic bone, and then stopped for a few minutes and started all over again.
• It felt like a knife going through my cervix.

Burning

Several moms felt a burning sensation during the contractions and crowning.

• I was expecting the contractions to feel like intense menstrual cramps, but it felt more like burning.
• I felt a burning pain that spread across my lower abdomen and then slowly eased up as a contraction ended.
• During crowning there was a definite burning sensation, but I did tear, and it made it feel so much better, believe it or not.

Back pain

We tend to think of labor pains as occurring in the abdomen, but for some, the pain is in the back.

• I had terrible back pain. I didn't have any contractions in my stomach like you see in the movies.
• It felt like a really bad backache.
• It felt like a Mack truck running over my spine over and over again.
• It felt like a knife in my back with every contraction. I was literally trying to get away from my own back.

Pain in other areas

Legs, hips, and the rectal area were also fair game for pain.

• I had rectal pain with each contraction from the very beginning.
• I had an hour of labor before my epidural was placed, with really bad cramping along my upper thighs.
• It felt as though a 400 pound man was pressing down on each hip.
• I felt sharp aching in my hips.
• It felt like someone was stabbing me in the butt and hips from the inside. I had no pain in my back or tummy.

Waves

Labor certainly isn't a trip to the beach, but many women described the contractions' wavelike effect.

• Each contraction felt like a wave of pain that rose, peaked, and fell.
• I could feel each contraction coming on, building and building, then peaking and coming down. When the contraction was over I felt completely fine.
• I had very intense waves of pain, coming right on top of one another.

Pressure

Lots of women felt pressure, even before the pushing stage. The most common analogy used to describe the sensation? All decorum aside, think poop.

• After the epidural it just felt like so much pressure. I was surprised that it felt like I had to have a bowel movement rather than pressure in the vagina.
• You feel like you want to poop really bad and there's some pressure pushing down.
• It felt like a big poop to be completely honest.
• When my contractions started I thought I had to have a bowel movement.
• I felt extreme pressure on my rectum.
• I had lots of pressure in the groin area
• I had extreme pressure on my tailbone and vagina.
• It felt like I had to take a giant poop! Honestly! The pressure was insane!
• Transition made me feel like I had to move my bowels.
• When the contractions were beginning, before they really hurt, it just felt like I had to go to the bathroom!

Pushing

Many women described pushing as a relief, while others found it painful.

• There is a ton of pressure, and once you start pushing it hurts so bad to stop.
• My contractions were manageable but the rectal pressure was intense! It was relieving to push and incredibly relieving to push him out.
• Pushing felt awful – like I was constipated times a hundred and trying to push a baby out of my butt!
• Pushing was great because I could finally do something.
• I felt contractions during pushing that were pretty bad, but the pushing made them stop hurting.
• I had deep waves of intense pain up until I was able to push. Then, the pain became part of the background noise, as though I was in an altered state.

Our bodies, ourselves

While some women felt very present in their bodies during labor, others felt separated.

• I felt like I was not in control of my body.
• My body wanted to take over and do its own thing.
• It felt like an out-of-body experience.
• I was stuck between agony with my contractions, ecstasy when I sneaked a push in, and feeling like I was trying to stop a freight train (trying not to push when the urge was there). I have never been more in my body.
• It was very calm. I was working with my body and felt very empowered.

Exhaustion

They don't call it labor for nothing. Moms definitely acknowledged how much work was involved.

• It was very consuming. I was unable to think of or do anything else after contractions started.
• It was a lot of physical work, kind of like doing weight training at the gym with heavy weights.
• If I could describe it, I would say it was the hardest work I have ever done in my life.
• It was exhausting. I hadn't eaten, so I had very little energy and had to be on oxygen for about half my labor.
• The pushing made time fly, but at the same time really exhausted me in a way that I wasn't prepared for.

The sunny side

Even if your own piece from that box of labor chocolates turns out to be considerably less than tasty, remember that childbirth has a definite sunny side, as celebrated by many BabyCenter moms.

• It was the most beautiful pain I've ever felt.
• It was amazing. Painful, yes, but I could see (with a mirror) my baby coming out!
• I was cracking jokes between contractions. I had a blast and was not afraid
• It felt natural, like my body was meant to do it and I should just let it happen.
• It was painful of course, but it was a different pain. I had never really felt pain with a purpose. Somehow knowing the end result and that it was normal made it easier to bear.
• Emotionally, it was amazing. Many people say the pain disappears once your child is in your arms, and they're right!

Okay, I think that's about it. Let me end this post with a video I got from the youtube page of Baby Center about Labor and Birth:

Backtrack: Wedding Preparation Part Three (Program Proper)

Okay, now I think it's time to blog about the whole reception program. I'm done with The Inspiration and Wedding Suppliers blog posts so it's time to party!

Our Wedding Liturgy

THE LITURGICAL ENTOURAGE

Officiating Priest Rev. Fr. Jaime P. Padilla
Commentator ___________________
First Reading ___________________
Responsorial Psalm ___________________
Second Reading ___________________
Prayers of the Faithful ___________________

Offertory
Candles : Anna Carmela A. Desiderio
Christa Margarita D. Rivera
Chalice: Emmanuel B. Cajigal
Water and Wine: Ma. Dolores D. Rivera
Host: Emelita B. Cajigal
Wine: Eloisa C. Albano
Flowers: Karen Frances S. Cajigal
Katrina Therese A. Cajigal
Fruits: Jose Lorenzo A. Desiderio
Jonathan Augusto N. San Migue, Jr.

PROCESSION OF ENTOURAGE

BRIDAL MARCH

ENTRANCE RITES

Fr. Jaime: In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: (Greetings)
The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God, our Father, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.
All: And also with you.

Fr. Jaime: My dear friends, we have come here to witness and celebrate with Regie and Lois as they confer the sacrament of holy matrimony on one another. As we offer this Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, let us join Regie and Lois in prayer that God may shower them his abundant blessings as they begin their life together. As we prepare ourselves to celebrate these sacred mysteries, let us silently examine our conscience and ask God for pardon and strength.

Fr. Jaime: You were sent to heal the contrite. Lord, have mercy.
All: Lord, have mercy.

Fr. Jaime: You came to call sinners. Christ, have mercy.
All: Christ have mercy.

Fr. Jaime: You plead for us at the right hand of the Father. Lord, have mercy.
All: Lord, have mercy.

Fr. Jaime: May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins, and bring us to everlasting life.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: Let us pray. Father, you have made the bond of marriage a holy mystery, a symbol of Christ's love for his Church. Hear our prayers for Regie and Lois. With faith in you and in each other they pledge their love today. May their lives always bear witness to the reality of that love. We ask this through Our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever.
All: Amen.

LITURGY OF THE WORD

Commentator: Please be seated and listen to the Word of God.

FIRST READING
Reader: A reading from the book of Genesis: (Genesis 2:18-24)

The Lord God said: “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a suitable partner for him.” So the Lord God formed out of the ground various wild animals and various birds of the air, and He brought them to the man to see what he would call them; whatever the man called each of them would be its name. The man gave names to all the cattle, all the birds of the air, and all the wild animals; but none proved to be the suitable partner for the man.

So the Lord God cast a deep sleep on the man, and while he was asleep, he took out one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. The Lord God then built up into a woman the rib that He had taken from the man. When he brought her to the man, the man said:

“This one, at last, is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; this one shall be called ‘woman’, for out of ‘her man’ this one has been taken.”

That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body.

The Word of the Lord.
All: Thanks be to God.

RESPONSORIAL PSALM
Reader: Let our response be:
Happy are those who obey the Lord, who live by his commands.
All: Happy are those who obey the Lord, who live by his commands.

Reader: Your work will provide for your needs; you will be happy and prosperous.
All: Happy are those who obey the Lord, who live by his commands.

Reader: Your wife will be like a fruitful vine in your home, and your children will be like young olive trees around your table.
All: Happy are those who obey the Lord, who live by his commands.

Reader: A man who obeys the Lord will surely be blessed like this.
All: Happy are those who obey the Lord, who live by his commands.

Reader: May the Lord bless you from Zion! May you see Jerusalem prosper all the days of your life!
All: Happy are those who obey the Lord, who live by his commands.

Reader: May you live to see your grandchildren! Peace be with Israel!
All: Happy are those who obey the Lord, who live by his commands.

SECOND READING
Reader: A reading from the first letter of Paul to the Corinthians: (1 Cor. 13:1-10)

If I speak with human tongues and angelic as well, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong, a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and, with full knowledge, comprehend all mysteries, if I have faith great enough to move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give everything I have to feed the poor and hand over my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient; love is kind. Love is not jealous, it does not put on airs, it is not snobbish. Love is never rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not prone to anger; neither does it brood over injuries. Love does not rejoice in what is wrong but rejoices with the truth. There is no limit to love’s forbearance, to its trust, its hope, its power to endure.

Love never fails. Prophecies will cease, tongues will be silent, knowledge will pass away. Our knowledge is imperfect and our prophesying is imperfect. When the perfect comes, the imperfect will pass away.

The Word of the Lord.
All: Thanks be to God.

Commentator: Please stand to honor the Gospel.

Choir: Alleluia! God is love; let us love one another as he has loved us. Alleluia! (1 John 4:8-11)

GOSPEL

Fr. Jaime: The Lord be with you.
All: And also with you.

Fr. Jaime: A reading from the Holy Gospel according to St. Matthew (19:3-6)
All: Glory to you, O Lord.

Fr. Jaime: Some Pharisees came up to Him and said, to test Him, “May a man divorce his wife for any reason whatever?” He replied, “Have you not read that at the beginning the Creator made them male and female and declared, ‘For this reason a man shall live his father and mother and cling to his wife, and the two shall become as one’? Thus they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore, let no man separate what God has joined.”

The Gospel of the Lord.

All: Praise to you Lord Jesus Christ.

Commentator: Please be seated for the homily.

H O M I L Y

THE RITE OF MARRIAGE

Commentator: Please remain seated for the marriage rites.

Regie and Lois, their parents and all principal sponsors, please stand for the exchange of vows.

Fr. Jaime: Dearly beloved Regie and Lois, you are here today to seal your love with an eternal bond before the Church. I assure you of the prayers of our community that God may pour his abundant blessings on your love, and help you to carry out the duties of the married state.

And you, dear sponsors, may I ask you to help them with your prayers and accept them as a new couple in the Christian community.

SCRUTINY

Fr. Jaime: May I now ask you to answer truthfully the following questions:

Lois, did you come here of your own free will to bind yourself forever in the love and service of your husband?
Lois: Yes, Father.

Fr. Jaime: Regie, did you come here of your own free will to bind yourself forever in the love and service of your wife?
Regie: Yes, Father.

Fr. Jaime: Are you both ready to raise as good Christians the children whom God will give you?
Regie & Lois: Yes, Father.

EXCHANGE OF VOWS

Fr. Jaime: Regie and Lois, since you intend to contract the sacrament of holy matrimony, express sincerely your intention before God and his Church.

Regie: (Say vows)
Lois: (Say vows)

Please face each other and join your hands.

Lois, do you take Regie here present, for your lawful husband according to the rite of our holy Mother the Church?
Lois: I do.

Fr. Jaime: Do you give yourself to him as his wife?
Lois: I do.

Fr. Jaime: Do you accept him as your lawful husband?
Lois: I do.

Fr. Jaime: Regie, do you take Lois, here present, for your lawful wife according to the rite of our holy Mother the Church?
Regie: I do.

Fr. Jaime: Do you give yourself to her as her husband?
Regie: I do.

Fr. Jaime: Do you accept her as your lawful wife?
Regie: I do.

Fr. Jaime: And now, please say the following prayer:
Regie & Lois: Guide us, Almighty Father, as we strive to fulfill our marriage vows for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, as long as we both shall live. We put ourselves in Your hands as husband and wife, and share the wonderful meaning of this offering, with all who are present.

Fr. Jaime: And I, by the authority of the Church and calling on all those present here as witnesses, confirm and bless the bond of marriage you have contracted in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
All: Amen.

BLESSING OF THE ARRHAE AND RINGS

Fr. Jaime: We shall now bless the newly wedded couple’s arrhae and rings which are the symbols of their love and fidelity to one another. Our help is in the name of the Lord.
All: Who made heaven and earth.

Fr. Jaime: Let us pray.

Bless Regie and Lois, O Lord, with sufficiency of mate¬rial possessions which these arrhae symbolize so that they may use them to attain eternal life through Christ Our Lord.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: Bless, O Lord, these rings so that Regie and Lois who will wear them, may ever live in mutual love and unbroken loyalty, through Christ, Our Lord.
All: Amen.

EXCHANGE OF RINGS AND ARRHAE

Fr. Jaime: Now give these rings to one another and say:

Regie: Lois, wear this ring as a sign of my love and loyalty, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Lois: Regie, wear this ring as a sign of my love and loyalty, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Regie: Lois, I give you these arrhae as a pledge of my dedication to your welfare and the children God will give us, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Lois: Regie, I accept them, and promise to treasure them and to multiply them a hundredfold, so we may build a truly Christian home together, in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

Fr. Jaime: My dear friends let us welcome Regie and Lois as a new Christian couple in our Christian community. Let us give them a warm round of applause.

LIGHTING OF THE UNITY CANDLE

Commentator: The Groom and Bride will now light the unity candle, symbol of their communion with Christ in their life together.

Fr. Jaime: The Groom and Bride entered the Church as two separate individuals. In the Sacrament of Marriage, they have now been joined by God as one flesh. May the flame of the Unity Candle remind them of God’s presence in their married life. God alone is the source of light and warmth, wisdom and love, hope and life, now and forever.

PRAYERS OF THE FAITHFUL

Fr. Jaime: Dearly beloved, let us now pray for the Church and for our newly wedded couple which reflects their union with Christ. To every petition our response will be: Lord, hear our prayer.

Reader: For our nation and our holy Church, that through the goodness and integrity of its people, harmony and justice may be secured and lasting peace and prosperity, be achieved; let us pray to the Lord.
All: Lord, hear our prayer.

Reader: For Regie and Lois now beginning their life together, that they may have divine assistance at every moment, the constant support and companionship of friends, the blessing of healthy children, a warm love reaching out to others and good health until a ripe old age, let us pray to the Lord.
All: Lord, hear our prayer.

Reader: For their parents, relatives, and friends, that the Lord will forever be generous in showering them with all His graces and blessings, let us pray to the Lord.
All: Lord, hear our prayer.

Reader: For the poor and the sick, for all those with trial and afflic¬tion, that the Lord touch them with His consolation and strength, let us pray to the Lord
All: Lord, hear our prayer.

Reader: For our dearly departed loved ones, may they have eter¬nal peace and happiness in your kingdom, let us pray to the Lord.
All: Lord, hear our prayer.

Fr. Jaime: Almighty, eternal God, look down with favor upon your servants Regie and Lois. Grant them to remain faithful to you and to one another. At the end of a long and well-spent life, reward them with eternal happiness together with their children and with all those who love them, through Christ our Lord.
All: Amen.

OFFERTORY
Commentator: Please be seated.

CANDLE CEREMONY
Commentator: The candle sponsors will light the nuptial candles.

VEIL & CORD CEREMONY
Commentator: The veil and cord sponsors will please put the veil and cord on the newlyweds.

Fr. Jaime: Pray, my brothers and sisters, that our sacrifice may be acceptable to God, the almighty Father.

All: May the Lord accept this sacrifice at your hands for the praise and glory of his name, for our good and the good of all his Church.

PRAYER OVER THE GIFTS
Fr. Jaime: Lord, accept our offering for Regie and Lois. By your love and providence you have brought them together. Now bless them all the days of their married life. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: The Lord be with you.
All: And also with you.

Fr. Jaime: Lift up your hearts.
All: We lift them up to the Lord.

Fr. Jaime: Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.
All: It is right to give him thanks and praise.

Fr. Jaime: Father, all-powerful and ever living God, we do well always everywhere to give you thanks. You created man in love to share your divine life, we see his high destiny in the love of husband and wife, which bears the imprint of your own divine love. Love is man’s origin, love is his constant calling, love is his fulfillment in heaven. The love of man and woman is made holy in the sacrament of marriage, and becomes the mirror of your everlasting love. Through Christ, the choirs of angels and all the saints praise you and worship your glory. May our voices blend with theirs as we join their unending hymn of praise.

All: Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might. Heaven and earth are full of your glory. Hosanna in the highest. Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord. Hosanna in the highest.

Fr. Jaime: Lord, you are holy indeed the fountain of all holiness. Let your spirit come upon these gifts and make them holy so that they may become for us the Body and Blood of our Lord. Jesus Christ. Before He was given up to death, a death He freely accepted, He took bread and gave you thanks. He broke the bread, gave it to his disciples and said:

TAKE THIS, ALL OF YOU, AND EAT IT. THIS IS MY BODY WHICH WILL BE GIVEN UP FOR YOU.

When supper was ended He took the cup. Again He gave you thanks and praise. He gave the cup to his disciples and said:

TAKE THIS ALL OF YOU AND DRINK FROM IT. THIS IS THE CUP OF MY BLOOD, THE BLOOD OF THE NEW AND EVERLASTING COVENANT. IT WILL BE SHED FOR YOU AND FOR ALL, SO THAT SINS MAY BE FORGIVEN. DO THIS IN MEMORY OF ME.

Fr. Jaime: Let us proclaim the mystery of faith.

All: Dying you destroyed our death, rising you restored our life. Lord Jesus, come in glory.

Fr. Jaime: In memory of his death and resurrection, we offer you, Father, this life giving bread, this saving cup. We thank you for counting us worthy to stand in your presence and serve you. May all of us who share in the body and blood of Christ be brought together in unity of the Holy Spirit. Lord, remember your Church throughout the world. Make us grow in love together with Benedict, our Pope, Gabriel, our bishop, and all the clergy. Remember our brothers and sisters who have gone to their rest in the hope of rising again. Bring them and all the departed into the light of your presence. Have mercy on us all, especially on Regie and Lois whom you have joined together in the sacrament of matrimony. Make us worthy to share eternal life with Mary, the Virgin Mother of God, with St. Joseph, with the apostles and all the saints who have done your will throughout the ages. May we praise you in union with them and give you glory through Your Son, Jesus Christ. Through him, with him, and in him, in the unity of the Holy Spirit all glory and honor is yours, almighty Father, forever and ever.

All: Amen.

COMMUNION RITE
Fr. Jaime: Let us pray with confidence to the Father in the words our Savior gave us:
All: Our Father...

NUPTIAL BLESSING
Fr. Jaime: Let us pray to the Lord for Regie and Lois who come to God’s altar at the beginning of their married life so that they may always be united in love for each other.

Holy Father, you created humankind in your own image and made man and woman to be joined as husband and wife in union of body and heart and so fulfill their mission in this world.

Father, to reveal the plan of your love, you made the union of husband and wife an image of the covenant between you and your people.

In the fulfillment of this sacrament, the marriage of Christian man and woman is a sign of the marriage between Christ and the Church. Father, stretch out your hand, and bless Regie and Lois.

Lord, grant that as they begin to live this sacrament they may share with each other the gifts of your love and become one in heart and mind as witnesses to your presence in their marriage. Help them to create a home together.

Give your blessings to Lois, your daughter, so that she may be a good wife caring for the home, faithful in love for her husband, generous and kind.

Give your blessing to Regie, your son, so that he may be a faithful husband and a good Father.

Father, grant that as they come together to your table on earth, so they may one day have the joy of sharing your feast in heaven.

We ask this through Christ our Lord.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: Lord Jesus Christ you said to your apostles: I leave you peace, my peace I give you. Look not on our sins, but on the faith of your Church, and grant us the peace and unity of your kingdom, where you live forever and ever.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: The peace of the Lord be with you always.
All: And also with you.

Fr. Jaime: Let us greet each other with the peace of Christ.

COMMUNION
All: Lamb of God you take away the sins of the world, have mercy on us. (2x) Lamb of God you take away the sins of the world, grant us peace.

Commentator: Please kneel.

Fr. Jaime: This is the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world. Happy are those who are called to his Supper.
All: Lord, I am not worthy to receive you but only say the word and I shall be healed.

REMOVAL OF THE VEIL AND CORD (during the Ablution)
Commentator: The secondary sponsors will please remove the cord and veil.

PRAYER AFTER COMMUNION
Fr. Jaime: Let us pray.

Lord, in your love, you have given us this Eucharist to unite us with one another and with you. As you have made Regie and Lois one with this sacrament of marriage, so now make them one in love for each other. We ask you this through Christ, our Lord.
All: Amen.

CONCLUDING RITES

ADMONITION

Fr. Jaime: Regie and Lois, now that you have received the holy sacra¬ment of matrimony, I admonish you to remain faithful to one another.
Lois, love your husband and be a good wife, persevere in faith, in love, and in holiness.
Regie, love your wife as Christ loves his Church, and live with her in the holy fear of the Lord.

THE SEVENFOLD BLESSING
Fr. Jaime: The Lord be with you.
All: And also with you.

Fr. Jaime: May the Lord bless you until the end of your days.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: May he unite your hearts in an enduring bond of pure love.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: May you be blessed with children, and may the love that you lavish on them be returned a hundredfold.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: May the peace of Christ always dwell in your hearts and in your home. May you have true friends to stand by you both in joy and in sorrow.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: May you be ready with help and consolation for all those who come to you in need, and may the blessings promised to the compassionate be yours in abundance in your home.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: May you be blessed in your work and enjoy its fruits. May care never cause you distress, nor the desire for earthly possessions lead you astray, but may your hearts’ concern be always for the treasures laid up for you in heaven.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: May the Lord grant you fullness of years, so that you may reap the harvest of a good life. And after you have served him loyally in his kingdom on earth, may he take you up into his eternal dominions in heaven.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: And may almighty God bless you all, the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
All: Amen.

Fr. Jaime: The Mass is ended. Go in peace and spread the love of God everywhere.
All: Thanks be to God.

SIGNING OF MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE
Commentator: Please be seated while souvenir photos are taken and documents are signed.

PICTORIAL
1. Bride and Groom
2. With the Principal Sponsors
3. With the Bridal Entourage
4. With the Parents of the Bride and Groom
5. With the Family of the Bride
6. With the Family of the Groom
7. With the Co-Workers of the Groom
8. With the Co-Workers of the Bride
9. With the Friends of the Groom
10. With the Friends of the Bride

Program Proper for the Master of Ceremony, Harry Ebio (boyfriend of my husband's co-worker and has worked for radio stations as a voice over announcer and radio DJ):

Program starts as soon as the bridal car arrives (wait for signal from Matron of Honor). MC should make sure that all guests are seated on their proper tables.MC will coordinate with Ate Eloisa and Gemma (Matron of Honor).

I. Invocation
To be led by: Rev. Father Jaime P. Padilla
(if he’s not around: Mr. Antonio C. Medrano, father of the Groom)

II. Introduction of the Entourage (Seated)
During the introduction, please encourage the person being introduced to stand up to be recognize

Parents of the Bride
Mr. Marcelo P. Desiderio, Jr.
Mrs. Annabelle D. Desiderio

Parents of the Groom
Mr. Antonio C. Medrano
Mrs. Victoria B. Medrano

Principal Sponsors (Ninangs)
Mrs. Patricia S.J. Valerio, mother of one of the groom’s best friends
Mrs. Ma. Carmen N. Yabut, aunt of the bride
(she’s currently in Canada; representing her is the bride’s aunt, Carmina San Miguel)
Mrs. Maria Allelie C. Natividad, aunt of the bride
Mrs. Rebecca D.R. Atanacio, family friend
Dra. Julita N. Chiombon, godmother of the bride
Mrs. Norma R. Cruz, family friend
Ms. Juana V. Medrano, godmother of the groom
Mrs. Corazon V. Villar, family friend

Principal Sponsors (Ninongs)
Hon. Vice Mayor Bartolome N. Rivera, Jr., uncle of the bride
Mr. Jonathan Augusto T. San Miguel, Jr., uncle of the bride
Mr. Jose Enrique P. Desiderio, uncle of the bride
(he’s currently in Qatar; representing him is the bride’s uncle Jhonie Natividad)
Mr. Jaime S. Baltazar, godfather of the bride
Mr. Gildo C. Jimenez, family friend
Mr. Lamberto C. Santos, Jr., former elementary teacher and coach of the groom
Mr. Carlito M. Parrocha, uncle of the groom straight from Baguio City
Mr. Romeo E. Quevedo, family friend

Secondary Sponsors
Candle: Jed Lawrence S. Cajigal and Nella Crizelle D. Escalona
Veil: Jericho Ian D. Cabanos and Vanessa Alecsa D. Rivera
Cord: Ian B. Acejo and Patricia Beatrice D. Rivera

Ring Bearer: Sean Rodnee T. Serrano
Coin Bearer: Kevin Kyle R. De Asis
Bible Bearer: Aeron Basti R. San Pedro

Flower Girls:
Ma. Venice Angelica N. Lebardo
Txalioria D. Santos

Bridesmaids:
Ms. Leta Arianna D. Desiderio
Ms. Lara Alyssa D. Desiderio
Ms. Lisa Athena D. Desiderio

Groomsmen:
Mr. Marcelo D. Desiderio III
Mr. Mark Anthony L. Medrano
Mr. Alfred Lawrence C. Albano

Matron of Honor
Mrs. Gemma Maria R. Mendoza

Maid of Honor
Ms. Lora Andrea D. Desiderio

Best Man
Mr. Felix Lorenzo B. Medrano

III. Audio-Visual Presentation (Courtesy of SpotPoint Photography)
***Back story of the bride and groom***

• They met through the San Mateo Buenviaje Leo Club
• They’ve been together since Christmas 2004, 6 years, 2 months, and so-so days to be exact
• Their terms of endearment for each other is Dydy and Mymy (short for My Daddy and My Mommy)

IV. Introduction of the Couple / Second Official Kiss
Grand entrance of the couple (cue: “Firework by Katy Perry” and bubble machine)
Exchange of vows

OFFICIAL START OF THE PROGRAM

VI. Dove Throwing

V. Cake Cutting

VI. Wine Toasting by the Best Man
Felix Lorenzo B. Medrano, brother of the groom

VII. Wedding Games
Bouquet Throw(a ribbon will be tied to the bouquet; whoever gets it will receive the bouquet)
Garter Toss (like trip to Jerusalem)
Kissing Game (chosen couple will imitate the bride and groom)

VIII. Picture-taking per Table
Dinner (in no particular order)
Audio-Visual Presentation-Wedding Pictures
Photo Booth (for two hours only)
Song Number from Tita Mayet and Tito Bobby

IX. Father-Daughter Dance
Father of the Bride: Marcelo P. Desiderio, Jr. (cue: Butterfly Kisses by Bob Carlisle)

X. First Dance of the Couple / Money Dance
Cue: The Way You Look Tonight by Michael Buble

XI. Message from the Principal Sponsors
One pair (Ninong Omie and Ninang Mina)

XIII. Message from the Parents
Bride’s Parents and Groom’s Parents

I've also made the song list and thank God for Kuya Emman (who works at Magic 89.9) because we were able to burn all these songs in a CD (no need for DYI):

WEDDING CEREMONY
Wedding Procession: At the Beginning (OST Anastasia)
Bridal Entrance: Just the Way You Are by Bruno Mars (acoustic version) to be sung LIVE by Paul Mendoza (bride's best friend's husband)
Offertory: Anima Christi
Communion: The Prayer / Lead Me Lord
Picture-Taking: Ikaw / Angels Brought Me Here / So In Love / I See the Light/ So Close / I'll Be / Make Me Whole / This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)

RECEPTION
Couple's Entrance: Firework by Katy Perry
Couple's First Kiss / Exchange of Vows: Kiss Me by Sixpence None the RIcher
Father & Bride Dance: Butterfly Kisses by Bob Carlisle
First Dance / Money Dance: The Way You Look Tonight by Michael Buble)
Cake Cutting: Teenage Dream OST Glee
Bouquet Toss: Soul Sister by Train
Garter Toss: You Belong With Me by Taylor Swift
Kissing Game: Marry You by Bruno Mars
Ending: Love Story by Taylor Swift

So far, I've listed what's inside our miselette, invitation and reception program proper. I have also included our songs. And to end this post, let me share our vows (copyright):

My vows that made most of the guests cry

Hubby was a bit overwhelmed and teary-eyed

Finally, I'm 9 Months Pregnant!

Last Wednesday, my hubby and I went to have my lab works and pelvic ultrasound done. So, we went to Marikina Valley Medical Center for my urinalysis and hemoglobin/hematocrit. Since I was really excited to do the 4D ultrasound, we didn't bother having the pelvic ultrasound done there. Instead, I phoned In My Womb and set an appointment. We selected the Ruby Package (currently an on-going promo) amounting to Php 4,000. Not bad.

SM Marikina branch is one of the best!

When we got there, we were welcomed by the most courteous nurse in the history of being a receptionist (no kidding!). I immediately had a liking to the place. What more, when she learned that I am currently in my 35th week, she advised me to have the 2D ultrasound first so that we won't get disappointed. If the OB says it's clear to do a 4D then by all means, go!

Baby's 100% BOY! See his balls? Hahaha

In My Womb is not a facility that endorses 4D for the money (clearly, after the example I have cited above) but because they want to increase the future parents' excitement by showing how their baby looks like. Awesome, isn't it?

Anyway, during the pelvic ultrasound, the OB and staff were very friendly and accommodating. Sadly, they didn't allow me to proceed with the 4D because my baby's already in a cephalic position (meaning his head is already in the vaginal area) and we can't see his face. She said that although I didn't get to see my baby's actual features, it's good news because my baby can be delivered normally. My amniotic fluid is also in proper amounts plus my baby's weight is approximately 3 kilos (plus/minus 300g for actual weight). If I'm lucky, baby's weight could be just around 6.6 lbs, which is the best weight for babies if I want to have a normal delivery.

Good amount of amniotic fluid, we're good to go!

Fast forward to today...

I am quite having a difficulty in sleeping and breathing due to the fact that my baby's nearing delivery. Not to mention, I have developed certain rashes on my extremities. They're very itchy and I had to scratch them or else, it'll be very hard to sleep.  The rashes started on my belly (where I self-medicated on Fissan Prickly Heat powder = fail).

PUPPP – or pruritic urticarial papules and plaques of pregnancy

I was scared at first because it was the first time I've seen this and during my 9th month pa! I've asked my doctor and she said that I don't need to worry because my skin is just sensitive and most likely, these rashes will disappear after my pregnancy. I also consulted a dermatologist to check what's going on with my rashes and thankfully, she said that it's not permanent and it may go away once I'm done with my pregnancy. She gave me so many things to drink/use:

Loratidine (safe), lotion (safe), soap (safe)

So, what exactly is PUPPP?
Pruritic urticarial papules and plaques of pregnancy (PUPPP), also known as polymorphic eruption of pregnancy, is the most common rash in pregnant women. It normally occurs in first pregnancies during the third trimester with an average onset of 35 weeks. Thankfully, PUPPP does not usually affect subsequent pregnancies.

Appearance of PUPPP
The rash of PUPPP almost always begins in the stretch marks (striae) of the abdomen. It does not involve the belly button distinguishing it from other common rashes of pregnancy. The rash itself consists of small, red wheals in the stretch marks that grow together to form larger wheals on the abdomen. Sometimes the rash can include small vesicles. Over the next several days, the rash can spread over the thighs, buttocks, breasts, and arms.

The rash is very itchy, or pruritic, hence the name. This condition is harmless to mother and baby, but can be very annoying. It lasts an average of 6 weeks and resolves spontaneously 1 to 2 weeks after delivery. The most severe itching normally lasts for no more than 1 week.

Cause of PUPPP
The cause of PUPPP is unknown. It is not associated with preeclampsia, autoimmune disorders, hormonal abnormalities, or fetal abnormalities. Some investigators suggest that the rapid abdominal wall distension damages connective tissue and causes an inflammatory response. One study has shown that male fetal DNA can be found in skin biopsies of the rash. Since 70% of women with PUPPP give birth to boys, a new hypothesis is that male fetal DNA acts as a skin irritant.

Diagnosis of PUPPP
The diagnosis of PUPPP is clinical, meaning it is based solely on the appearance of the rash. There are no laboratory tests that detect PUPPP. Skin biopsies are not generally performed unless there is a question about the diagnosis.

Treatment of PUPPP
The treatment of PUPPP is symptomatic. High strength steroid creams or ointments, such as clobetasol (Temovate) or betamethasone (Diplrolene), used up to 5 to 6 times a day usually relieve the itching and prevent the spread of the rash. Once the rash is under control, changing to a lower strength steroid used less frequently is advisable. For severe cases, daily oral steroids may be necessary to control itching. Oral antihistamines such asatarax, benadryl, and zyrtec, are generally less effective for itching than steroids, but may be useful at night to help with sleep.

According to Google, here's the list of Common Skin Changes and Rashes During Pregnancy:

When you’re pregnant, the changes that your body undergoes affect every part of your body, including your skin. Common skin changes include melasma, striae gravidarum, linea nigra, and varicose veins – just to name a few.

Melasma is more commonly known as the mask of pregnancy. Because of hormonal changes, some women develop dark patches on their face, particularly around the forehead and cheeks. This is a normal change and it usually fades away after delivery when the mother's hormones return to normal. Other common changes affecting the face are an increase in pimples, skin that becomes either more oily or more dry, and occasionally oily hair. (good thing I don't have this!)

Striae gravidarum – or the dreaded stretch marks – tend to affect some women more than others. It’s thought that genetics plays a large role in determining who’s cursed with these spidery imperfections and who isn’t. In general, stretch marks can appear anywhere on the body during pregnancy, but appear primarily on the stomach, buttocks, thighs and breasts. Stretch marks are generally very red when they first appear and sometimes appear raised at first. Over time, they’ll fade and become less noticeable, but – unfortunately – they never completely disappear. (touche!)

In addition, some women develop a dark line that runs from their belly button down toward their pubic area. This line is called the linea nigra and usually fades away after delivery. (i have this too!)

Next, it’s common not only for the nipples and areola to become somewhat enlarged, but they also tend to become darker in color during pregnancy. The external genitals also become increasingly pigmented during pregnancy. A few months following delivery, this increased pigmentation typically fades back to normal. (no dark coloration for me)

Existing moles also become darker. New moles may appear, as may skin tags, which are harmless skin growths. (no new / larger moles too)

And although varicose veins aren’t technically a skin condition, they can seem to be as veins become more obvious during pregnancy. (thank goodness, no varicose veins!(

When you’re pregnant, you’re also more likely to develop heat rash, as pregnant women generally perspire more than non-pregnant women. To avoid developing a rash, avoid becoming overheated and use a powder containing baking soda to help absorb moisture. You may also want to use an emollient cream under your breasts and at the top of the thighs to help prevent chafing. (victim of PUPPP)

Anyway, my OB advised me that my pelvic ultrasound is great, I have a normal hemoglobin/hematocrit results and my IE shows that my cervix is still closed (this is the part I hate the most! I don't like being IE-d at all! But, just for baby, I think it's all worth the pain). She advised me to be on my toes for the next coming weeks and of course, I need to see here on a weekly basis (to check if I'll be in labor soon). One thing that worries her is although the ultrasound shows a baby weight of 3 kilos, my baby looks huge!

pardon the outfit, I'm about to sleep (me at 36 weeks)

But, no need to worry. I just need to watch my diet, that's all. Oh, FYI, I lost 2 kilos. Can you believe it? I can't. We're praying for a normal delivery. I mean, I got the check from SSS last Friday which means I have enough to cover the package but still, I don't want to risk anything by undergoing a caesarean delivery. Keeping our fingers crossed!

SSS check

I can't wait to finally see you, my dear baby boy! Everything will be ready once you're here. I have your baby stuff, crib/pram from Graco (c/o your beloved Tita Emet), our manang, and yes, even your Pediatrician. This will be a fantastic journey and I just wish and HOPE that your dad and I can pull this off! I love you baby boy!